In The Way
It is 10AM on the morning. I’ve been up since seven, read the newspaper, had breakfast, even exercised and showered. I’m dressed and headed to my office with a fresh cup of coffee to write when something gets in the way.
As I pulled my desk away from the wall, ever so slightly, to retrieve a slip of paper, the jewelry holder fell to the floor tangling the necklaces that dangled from her golden arms and stretched neck. I considered throwing the mess in the garbage, but the doll, a collectable figurine by Heriloom Edition was a gift from my mother who is now deceased.
Mercury Retrograde was at it again. I scooped her up, rested the damage on the bed and turned on my computer. I refused to be deterred. I didn’t take the detour, the roundabout way to writing.
Several days later I summoned the fortitude to untangle the numerous strands of necklaces, without yelling, screaming or cursing. There’s some real personal growth taking place here Dr. Trugillo. I remembered to count to ten, take deep breathes and do whatever else needed to behave sane. “I am an adult.” I repeated to myself again and again.
However, it was a reminder that retirement is highly over rated. You think you’re going to do what you want, go where you want, eat what you want . . . all your wants will be cared for.
But no, I wake up to new health challenges, world disasters or situations that need attention, daily.
Staying focused is a challenge. Should I wear a face mask again, get the booster vaccination before or after the flu shot? The increasing concerns make me dizzy and worn out. I wasn’t going to mention the remote situation, but will, briefly. Spectrum had to mail us four new remotes, none of which turn the bedroom TV on.
And then the guilt! I don’t have loved ones near the fires, fighting or returning from Afghanistan, in Ida’s path or battling covid,
But damn it, I’m going to have fun and be happy even if it kills me.
* * * just saying
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I love her! Thank you for putting my feelings into your words—- love ❤️ wish we lived as close as we used to— a glass of wine and a good talk!
You’re very welcome. I’m having a glass of wine as chat . . .just saying,Claudia
Our problems are minor compared to what the people in the rest of the world are up against! Thanks for sharing your emotions with all of us!
Julie, Yes, we are lucky. Minor, that sums it up. Thank you.
Call me crazy, but I love the challenge of untangling jewelry chains! I guess I have too much time on my hands. Stay well, my friend.
If only I knew. You are patient, not crazy. Hugs
So glad you are writing again. I so relate to your musings….yes old girl we are constantly having to do something and it consumes our day. COULD IT BE WE JUST ARE MOVING SO MUCH SLOWER!
Mary, Thank for your encouragement. Yes, I’m slower especially the hands. . . .just saying, thanks.